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VR Girlfriend Project ‘Virtual Mate’ Puts Male Intimacy Needs First

By M. Christian
September 30, 2019
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System could someday become a useful therapeutic tool.

Of all the buzzwords that are tossed around by sex tech startups, one that rarely—if ever—makes the list is intimacy.

Which makes Virtual Mate [NSFW] so interesting as that very thing is a key part of its marketing.

A main part of this is its co-founder and current CEO, Jeff Dillon, being vocal about his company hopefully creating a way for those facing challenges around sexual intimacy to gain experience and confidence—and maybe help them bridge the gap between a virtual lover and a human one.

Real-time interactions

On the surface, Virtual Mate looks quite a bit like other sex tech VR companies. Operative words there being “on the surface” because Dillon’s technology offers unique features.

But first the basics. On the software side of things, Virtual Mate plans on using digital recreations of adult entertainers, which users would then be able to view and interact with through everything from PCs, a mobile app version, and, of course, virtual reality.

Users can also enjoy what they are calling “story mode”—basically an interactive erotic science fiction story, or just have fun with the characters in a more freeform way.

And here’s where Virtual Mate hopes to do what a lot of other VR sex tech companies don’t.

“‘Real-time is the key here,” Dillon told Metro UK, “as all other attempts at this market are with pre-recorded content or a live cam model.”

Not only that, but according to Dillon, his system will be a step up when it comes to what digital entertainers will be able to provide the user. As he puts it, “With the advancements in AI our system will know the user’s name, habits.”

He even goes as far as to say, “What is real and what isn’t will be indistinguishable.”

Innovative hardware

But that’s just the software. Virtual Mate also has a hardware side, as well, that being a sophisticated Bluetooth-enabled “core” that penis-equipped users can utilize to pleasure themselves while being synched up with the virtual side of the technology.

Which brings us to two other unique features. The first is another rarity in the sex tech world: a company setting out to make something that doesn’t just work well but is also pleasing to the eye.

According to the Virtual Mate site, the Core was designed with “an ingenious blend of triangles and circles” to create, as they put it, “flawless geometric beauty.”

Under the hood is the second special feature of their hardware—this time having to do with heat, and the Core considers this as part of the user’s sexual experience.

Speaking again to Metro UK, Dillon explained that “Traditional warming methods are cumbersome and not effective at retaining heat for ten minutes as most people just soaked their toy in hot water. Not partial. We came up with a self-warming system that warms the core with a flick of a switch.”

A therapeutic tool?

Next we come to the question in our title. While it’s true that just about every form of sex tech, even those not designed for that purpose, can be used in a therapeutic manner, Virtual Mate has actually made it a key selling point.

For example, here are Dillon’s thoughts on intimacy, and how his technology could be a way for many to overcome their physical intimacy anxieties.

Traditional intimacy isn’t for everyone. It is broken and not getting any better, but until now it was hard to replace the real thing so for people who have intimacy issues it became a big point of frustration and depression. This system will help some people get over intimacy issues so they are comfortable interacting with a partner in an intimate setting. Just using this as a training add could be huge for people. We will hope to help people who struggle with traditional intimacy as well as train others to help them perform better.

On Indiegogo now

The crowdfunding for Virtual Mate has recently launched on Indiegogo, where, if all goes well and the technology reaches its funding goals, the product should be shipping in December. Contributors who join early also get a big bonus, a 60% discount, for doing so.

Even though a lot can happen with startups, especially crowdfunded ones, Virtual Mate already has a lot going for it. Certainly there are the software and hardware innovations they’re promising. But beyond them is what’s put Dillon’s company on our radar: sensitivity.

While other sex tech developers have been throwing around the sexual power of their products, a large part of Virtual Mate’s marketing has been to address an issue that many have been struggling to deal with.

And while they might not be the answer to overcoming intimacy challenges that they recognize this, and are working on their own way to address it, says nothing but good things about Virtual Mate—and those who are working to bring it to fruition.

Image sources: Virtual Mate

M. Christian

M.Christian loves nothing better than exploring the intersections of sex and technology—and speculating on the future of both. A highly regarded erotica writer he has six novels,12 collections,100+ short stories, and 25 anthologies as an editor to his name. His non-fiction regularly appears n many sites, but he’s most proud of being a regular contributor to Future of Sex.

Of his erotic fiction, Tristan Taormino said that “M.Christian is a literary stylist of the highest caliber: smart, funny, frightening, sexy—there's nothing he can't write about … and brilliantly.”

Reflecting his unique ability to sympathetically and convincingly write for a range of genders and sexual orientations, his stories have appeared in multiple editions of Best American Erotica, Best Gay Erotica, Best Lesbian Erotica, The Mammoth Books of Erotica, and others. His collection of gay erotic fiction, Dirty Words, was a finalist for the Lambda Literary Award.

While a majority of his stories have been collected into books like Dirty Words, his fondness for combining sex and science fiction is clearly evident in collections that include Rude Mechanicals, Technorotica, Better Than The Real Thing, Skin Effect Effect, Bachelor Machine, and Hard Drive: The Best Sci-Fi Erotica of M.Christian.

As a novelist, M.Christian’s versatility is on full display with and the somewhat controversial queer BDSM/horror/thrillers Finger's Breadth, and Me2.

M.Christian has worked on the industry’s production side as an Associate Publisher for Renaissance E Books and as a Publisher for Digital Parchment Services. The latter dedicated to celebrating the works of science-fiction legends such as William Rotsler, Jerome Bixby, Jody Scott, Arthur Byron Cover, Ernest Hogan, and James Van Hise.

Covering topics like BDSM safety, sexual education, senior sexuality concerns, queer and gender issues, plus reviewing a variety of sextech products, M.Christian’s non-fiction has appeared on sites like Kinkly, Tickle.Life, Sexpert, Queer Majority, Sex for Every Body, and—of course—his ongoing work for Future of Sex.

If there’s anything M.Christian enjoys more than writing, it’s teaching. A featured presenter, sometimes with his friend Ralph Greco Jr, at national sex and BDSM events, he’s lectured on kink play (with an emphasis on safety), polyamory, boosting sexual creativity, and erotica writing--for beginners or those wanting to go pro.

M.Christian is a cohost on two popular sex-education podcasts: Love’s Outer Limits with Dr. Amy Marsh and Licking Non-Vanilla with Ralph Greco, Jr.

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