Creative Scenarios and Dominatrix Roleplay Ideas for Your Bedroom
Five creative, unconventional dominatrix scenarios for roleplay in the bedroom
No matter how good your sex is, there always comes that moment when you think, “Okay, let’s try something crazy.” That’s where roleplay comes in. It’s actually a little theater show between you and your partner, except there’s no audience.
One of the most exciting ways to spice things up is to play with power and control. Commanding, obeying and following each other’s rules can turn an ordinary evening into something completely different. And that’s where the dominatrix fantasy comes in: you take control, set the rules and watch your partner enjoy completing the tasks—all in a fun and safe way.
We’ve been exploring Locanto and came across a variety of interesting ads for dominatrix role-play, but these five in particular caught our eye. They’re really inspiring and can serve as a great idea for your role-play games.
1. The Evil Queen and Her Subject
You’re sitting on a “throne”, realistically, it could be an ordinary table or the edge of a bed, with some makeshift crown on your head, and he’s kneeling in front of you, ready to serve you.
Preparation
- Turn off bright lights and light a lamp or candle.
- If you like music, play some epic movie tracks (Game of Thrones, Lord of the Rings).
- The crown can be a ribbon, a scarf or a plastic crown from a children’s store.
- You are the queen, and he is your subject.
What the game looks like
It starts by bringing him before the “throne.” You tell him to kneel and not to look up until you let him. Your every word is law. He must address you as “Your Majesty” or “My Queen.”
Then you give him tasks: to kiss your hand, to take off your shoes, and to recite how powerful you are. If he makes a mistake or skips something—a penalty. Punishments can be light (a slap on the bottom, a few minutes without touching, an order to stand still).
The queen also decides when the award will be given. If he serves you well, you can let him touch you, kiss your body, or move on to sex. If not, let him wait and adore.
2. The Boss from the Office and Her Intern
The office has never been so much fun, trust us.
Preparation
- Put on a shirt, jacket and glasses. If you have heels, even better.
- Make a “desk”—it can be a real table or the edge of the bed.
- Grab a folder or pad for the full effect.
What the game looks like
You enter the room like a strict boss. He is sitting in front of your desk, and you explain to him that you are dissatisfied with his work. You can ask him: “Why are you late with the report?” or “Do you think these results work for me?”
His role is to apologize and beg for an opportunity to right the wrong. You give him “overtime assignments”. It could be massaging your shoulders while reciting how great a boss you are, or writing “I promise to please her” ten times.
If he makes a mistake, the punishment is severe—let’s say he kneels in the corner, without permission to touch you. If he tries, he can get a reward—sex in the “office”.
3. The Vampire and Her Prey
If you like a dark atmosphere and a bit of adrenaline, this is a hit.
Preparation
- Put on a black dress, a corset or anything that has a “goth” vibe.
- Lipstick dark red, possibly “teeth” from the costume shop.
- Dark light or candles for the right atmosphere.
- Prepare ice and red wine (for “blood”) by the bed.
What the game looks like
He walks into the room, and you blindfold him. You are a vampire; he is your prey. You start to touch his body with the ice—shoulders, neck, stomach—so that his skin burns with the contrast. Occasionally you bite his neck or shoulder.
You can whisper to him, “You are mine… you belong to me…” and order him to stay still while you examine him. He is prey, he has no right to resist you.
If you want to spice things up, you can use drops of wine on his skin and “lick the blood”.
4. The Goddess and Her Worshiper
This is a scenario for those who love worship and the feeling of being the center of the universe.
Preparation
- Create an “altar space”, candles, incense sticks, pillows on the floor.
- Wear something reminiscent of the ritual (white, gold or a long dress).
- He must come “to the ritual” as your faithful enjoys it.
What the game looks like
He walks in and immediately kneels before you. His task is to bow to you and recite prayers and repeat, “Goddess is almighty, Goddess is beautiful.”
You can order him to massage you, to kiss your feet or hands, or to bring you “gifts” (anything like a piece of jewelry, fruit, a bar of chocolate). If he doesn’t do well enough, you “punish” him by forbidding him to touch you.
When he shows complete devotion, he receives your “divine reward”. It can be sex, oral, or simply your permission to adore you even more.
5. Task Card Game
This is the best option for those who like surprises and unpredictability.
Preparation
- Make a deck of cards. Write a task on each one. For example:
- “kiss my foot”
- “Hold 3 minutes without moving while I touch you”
- “Ask permission to kiss me”
- “Punishment: 5 slaps wherever you want”
- “Bonus: I choose where you kiss me”
- Add wild cards as a complete surprise (you decide when they are drawn).
What the game looks like
You draw the cards, and he has to complete the task. No guessing, no arguing; the card says, he works. If he resists, he receives an additional penalty.
The longer you play, the more uncertain it is. You can end the game with a “big card”—for example, “Now you have permission to take me.”
The Rules of the Game
Before you slide into the scenarios, let’s agree on the “basics”. These are not hard and fast rules; they are more like tricks to make you both feel safe and relaxed:
- Talk in advance. What turns you on, and what doesn’t suit you at all? It’s better to say it now than to leave someone confused or offended later.
- Safe word. Always have a stupid word that interrupts everything, like “banana” or “melon”. If someone speaks, the game stops.
- Go slow. You don’t have to get into latex and whips right away. Sometimes, it is enough for someone to sit with their hands tied while the other commands.
- Laughter is allowed. If you laugh in the middle of the game, it doesn’t mean all is lost. It just means you’re having fun, and that’s the bottom line.
How to Spice Up the Game Even More
- Changing roles. You don’t always have to be the boss or the queen. One night you are the dominatrix; the next night you take on the role of submissive. This way you both get a new perspective, and the game never runs out of freshness.
- A mix of light and strong. Sometimes just a blindfold and a few harsh words are enough, and other times you can add a tie, a light clap or even a touch of pain—but, of course, only if you both want it.
- Teasing during the day. The game doesn’t have to start in the bedroom. Send messages throughout the day—orders, teasers, or “meeting” appointments. It creates excitement in advance and makes the whole day burn with anticipation.
- Talk after the game. When you’re done, you not only hug and laugh but also talk about what was the best, what might have surprised you too much, and what you’d like to try next time. It builds confidence and makes the game even better next time.
The Game Is Not Over Yet
Domination and role-playing are not just “fetish games”. It’s a way to discover new sides of your relationship, to laugh, surprise and connect in a whole new way. Sometimes it will be a light joke with a blindfold, and sometimes it will be a real little erotic act.
In these games, the dominatrix does not win, nor does the subordinate lose. You are both winners, because you got to try something different and have fun like never before.
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