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Love Me, Siri: People Are Having Sexual Fantasies about Their Voice Assistants

By M. Christian
April 22, 2017
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Report reveals just how common feelings of love and attraction are for software.

Voice assistant Siri asks if she can help.

According to a recent study, 25% of respondents said they’ve felt attracted to voice assistants like Apple’s Siri and Amazon’s Alexa. It also found that more than a third of regular users of voice assistants wish they were real because of their strong love for them.

The Speak Easy survey of 1,000 people was put together by creative think tank JWT Innovation and global media company Mindshare.

Reporting on the state of voice technology, the study also shared some fascinating insights on how using voice commands has begun to change the way we view our personal technology.

Being intimate with software

A major factor driving our changing relationship with tech is the sense of intimacy that can come from talking to our computers.

“There has always been something that gets in the way of our relationship with technology. We’re now ready for the most natural and intuitive form of interaction–the voice. The rise of a voice-activated world will allow us to get closer and more intimate with technology,” the report says.

This is nothing new, of course: last year Robin Labs reported that men had been attempting to “chat up” their voice assistants to fulfill their sexual desires. Similarly, Microsoft has programmed its own voice assistant, Cortana, to firmly but politely squash any attempts to flirt with it.

Of course, any discussion about sex or romance with the likes of Alexa, Cortana, or Apple’s Siri has to bring up Spike Jonze’s 2013 film Her, in which Joaquin Phoenix’s character becomes romantically involved with his operating system, voiced by Scarlett Johansson.

Talking in private

What makes the Speak Easy study interesting is how it adds a layer of understanding to why people form loving, and even sexual, feelings for voice technology. While many people still feel awkward talking to their voice assistants in public, it follows that using them in private would create a sense of intimacy.

The nuances of what’s going on still need more research, but it’s clear that it’s not the direct intent of voice assistant programmers to great flirty software. The attraction seems to be coming from two sources. The first is what Speak Easy has brought up: that developing feelings for such technology is a side effect of still being too shy to use them in public.

The second, though, speaks to what may be a much more fundamental need: that many people are finding it difficult to discuss their needs and feelings with other human beings.

Software versus humanity?

This actually makes a lot of sense. After all, technology can’t pass judgment, won’t interrupt, doesn’t have an agenda (unless it’s programmed to), and will listen for as long as you need.

This has caused some concern that people who prefer software might, in turn, be disappointed in humans or treat them as equally artificial—even disposable.

Kathleen Richardson and Erik Billing have used some elements of this in Campaign Against Sex Robots. As they say on their site: “We propose that the development of sex robots will further reduce human empathy that can only be developed by an experience of mutual relationship.”

A friend who is always there

Is really having someone to talk to such a bad thing though? Right now agents like Siri, Cortana, and others are friendly voices—and not much else.

In the next decade or so, though, it’s not too hard to speculate that they could be programmed not just to listen but respond in ways that could truly help people through personal troubles. It might even be possible to build them to create a sense of a “mutual relationship.”

In any event, much more study is clearly needed. But in the meantime, if you have any further questions just ask your voice assistant.

If that doesn’t work just wait a few more years—or ask a human being.

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M. Christian

M.Christian (they/them) loves nothing better than exploring the intersections of sex and technology—and speculating on the future of both. A highly regarded erotica writer they have six novels,12 collections, 100+ short stories, and 25 anthologies as an editor to their name. Their non-fiction regularly appears in many sites, but they're most proud of being a regular contributor to Future of Sex.

Of their erotic fiction, Tristan Taormino said that “M.Christian is a literary stylist of the highest caliber: smart, funny, frightening, sexy—there's nothing [they] can't write about… and brilliantly.”

Reflecting their unique ability to sympathetically and convincingly write for a range of genders and sexual orientations, their stories have appeared in multiple editions of Best American Erotica, Best Gay Erotica, Best Lesbian Erotica, The Mammoth Books of Erotica, and others. Their collection of gay erotic fiction, Dirty Words, was a finalist for the Lambda Literary Award.

While a majority of their stories have been collected into books like Dirty Words, their fondness for combining sex and science fiction is clearly evident in collections that include Rude Mechanicals, Technorotica, Better Than The Real Thing, Skin Effect Effect, Bachelor Machine, and Hard Drive: The Best Sci-Fi Erotica of M.Christian.

As a novelist, M.Christian’s versatility is on full display with Running Dry, The Very Bloody Marys, Brushes, Painted Doll; and the somewhat controversial queer BDSM/horror/thrillers Finger's Breadth, and Me2.

M.Christian has worked on the industry’s production side as an Associate Publisher for Renaissance E Books and as a Publisher for Digital Parchment Services. The latter dedicated to celebrating the works of science-fiction legends such as William Rotsler, Jerome Bixby, Jody Scott, Arthur Byron Cover, Ernest Hogan, and James Van Hise.

Covering topics like BDSM safety, sexual education, senior sexuality concerns, queer and gender issues, plus reviewing a variety of sex tech products, M.Christian’s non-fiction has appeared on sites like Kinkly, Tickle.Life, Sexpert, Queer Majority, Sex for Every Body, and—of course—their ongoing work for Future of Sex.

If there’s anything M.Christian enjoys more than writing, it’s teaching. A featured presenter, sometimes with their friend Ralph Greco Jr, at national sex and BDSM events, they have lectured on kink play (with an emphasis on safety), polyamory, boosting sexual creativity, and erotica writing--for beginners or those wanting to go pro.

M.Christian is a cohost on two popular sex-education podcasts: Love’s Outer Limits with Dr. Amy Marsh and Licking Non-Vanilla with Ralph Greco, Jr.

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