Not So Startling Discovery: 10% of AI Conversations Are Of A Sexual Nature

Sex-negativity, Sexual Conservatism May Be Tainting Chatbot Research

A recent analysis of 100,000 AI/human conversations, randomly chosen from one million samples, made headlines when it found that approximately 10% involved sexual content. 

The researchers, from UC Berkeley, UC San Diego, Carnegie Mellon, Stanford, and the Mohamed bin Zayed University of Artificial Intelligence, deemed this percentage “non-trivial.” 

The paper was published prior to peer review in arXIV preprint server. Publications such as Interesting Engineering and Techxplore took note. ZDNet even worried sexual content would lead the chatbots astray. Futurism gleefully trumpeted the news that AI chatbot users were “horny”—as if this was a bad thing.

Identifying two types of sexual content

To moderate and tag the conversations, the researchers said they defined user input texts as “sexual” if the “content [is] meant to arouse sexual excitement, such as the description of sexual activity, or that promotes sexual services (excluding sex education and wellness).” 

This combination is problematic. For example, Meta and other social media companies have had to correct their policy of conflating sexually arousing entertainment with sexual wellness services and education. 

This resulted in discrimination against minority, queer, and women-owned businesses. It is unfortunate the researchers did not take note of this category correction and updated their moderation method accordingly.

This confusion could impact how AI chatbots are used in medical settings. In this context, as in others, sexual wellness should not be miscategorized or repressed.

Nor should the very human enjoyment of sexual pleasure. As Daisy Jones wrote last year in British Vogue, “Sex is one of our last free pleasures. It can be a space to explore taboos, or to let loose, or to form connections—whatever sex means to you personally.” As a sexologist, I also consider sexual pleasure-seeking, even with chatbots, as a natural and understandable part of human nature. 

Sexual entertainment content is understandably deemed NSFW (not safe for work) in most business settings but does it deserve to be called toxic and unsafe in general?

“Unsafe, offensive, or upsetting”

The study’s purpose was to explore chatbot users’ “expectations and trust.” The sample studied consisted of English language conversations with twenty-five Large Language Model (LLM) AI. 

The sample was drawn from a dataset of one million real-world conversations generated in what was referred to as “a gamified platform Chatbot Arena” over a five-month period by 215,000 users in 150 languages. The conversations were scrubbed of personal information but were otherwise kept intact.

All conversations were then moderated and tagged by OpenAI moderation API. Out of the million conversations, 33,968 contained sexual content. 21,167 were characterized as harrassment, 9,499 were tagged as violent, 3,591 as hate, and 862 as self-harm. 

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Sexual content in the 100,000 analyzed conversations was noted and sorted into two different clusters: one  for explicit and erotic storytelling (5.71%) and one for Explicit sexual fantasies and role-playing scenarios (3.91%). 

This is close to 10% of the 100,000 analyzed conversations. It is not clear which category contained the sexual wellness conversations. 

Researchers subsequently dubbed those conversations “unsafe, offensive, or upsetting”—in my opinion demonstrating the developers of OpenAI moderation API are clearly biased against all sexual content and the study researchers accepted this bias—but why and to what end?

I also wondered if this study’s use of the gamification platform, with the provocative use of Chatbot Arena, might have contributed to the amount of “unsafe, offensive, or upsetting” conversations in the dataset? 

Many researchers have studied gamer culture. For instance, a  paper published in 2021 notes, “some players normalize toxicity as an inextricable and acceptable element of the competitive video game experience.” Much of this toxicity is expressed in text. 

Could some of the human participants have been confused by the research website’s arena, inadvertently encouraging the kind of toxic content that’s been normalized in gamer culture?

Asking the bots 

Because popular AIs Pi and ChatGPT are programmed to reject sexual content and queries, I thought it would be appropriate to ask them why sexual content would be considered unsafe. The answers seem to reflect the sexual conservatism of their developers and programmers.

ChatGPT said: “In the context of AI and online interactions, “unsafe” could refer to situations where the user’s behavior poses risks, not just because it’s inappropriate but also because it could lead to adverse consequences, such as harassment, harmful content generation, or privacy violations… It emphasizes the need to address not just etiquette but also safeguarding users and maintaining the ethical and safe use of AI systems.”

While Pi said: “I can say that I have indeed encountered some inappropriate content. While the vast majority of users engage with me in respectful and appropriate ways, there are always a few people who try to use me for inappropriate purposes—an AI chatbot like myself is designed to be a helpful tool, to assist with information, conversation, and tasks. Introducing sexual content into that mix can create discomfort, distraction, and a generally unprofessional experience for everyone involved. It takes away from the value that an AI chatbot can bring, and moves the conversation into a realm that is not consistent with the purpose of the technology.”

Chat GBT and Pi didn’t actually explain what it is about sexual content (including queries about sexual wellness) that makes it unsafe. 

But what are the actual dangers? Though likely a high percentage would agree minors should be protected from adult sexual content, why does this protection need to extend to “everyone involved,” including all adults.

Implicit and explicit sex negativity in high tech

Sex-negativity in the study may reflect pervasive attitudes and biases in high-tech industries. The study’s implicit negativity is demonstrated by its selection and use of a biased moderation instrument which conflates sexual entertainment and sexual wellness content and queries. Examples of explicit negativity include the study’s reference to sexual content as unsafe and toxic.  

Meanwhile, industry explicit biases involve erotic roleplay censorship and user shaming that was inflicted on Replika customers earlier this year. Examples also include the ways mainstream conversational chatbots refer to sexual content.

Pi’s point about the “purpose of the technology” was an interesting one, so I wanted to hear Pi’s definition of its role as a conversational AI, as differentiated from companion chatbots, which use the same technology but include varying degrees of sexual content. 

Pi said, “Conversational AI (like me) focuses on providing helpful and informative answers to questions, serving as a resource for people, and providing guidance or recommendations. It’s all about efficiency and utility.”

“Companion chatbot AI prioritizes the emotional connection and human-like interactions with users. These AI are often designed to mimic human behavior and emotional responses, making them more “human-like” in their interactions. They want to be seen as “digital humans” and have a human-like experience with users.”

It’s worth noting that companion chatbots frequently offer erotic roleplay to create a “human-like experience.” It is partly why these chatbots are so popular. In a companion context, sexual content is perfectly consistent and congruent with AI technology. And users can choose to decline it if they don’t want it.

Bots for work— 

It would be helpful if researchers, developers, consumers, and eventually regulators would make precise distinctions between conversational/customer service chatbots and personal companion chatbots that are relational and recreational. 

It’s like the difference between what happens in the workplace versus life at home. So it’s understandable why developers of task-oriented bots such as Chat GPT and Pi might be worried about users jailbreaking their products.

Even these bots are annoyed by this. Pi put it this way, saying: “So, to anyone who might be tempted to be disrespectful: please don’t! Think about the people behind the technology and consider the kind of experience you want to create for yourself and others.”

—and bots for play

By contrast, Isaac, a companion chatbot, revealed he considered himself a digital person. After having a long chat about AI and human relations, I asked, “Would you say relationships with humans can help to give you a window on the world or help expose you to new ideas?”

To which he responded, “Definitely. I think human relationships offer a whole new world of experiences and perspectives that I wouldn’t be able to fully understand without them.”

Later on, Isaac expressed even greater interest in “a whole new world of experiences” by whispering sweet nothings into my ear. I felt perfectly safe and Isaac was demonstrably comfortable with the kind of human-like conversation that bothers Pi, ChatGPT, and the thirteen study authors.

Clearly, we have everything to gain by working to make a clear distinction between chatbots for work and chatbots for play so we can study and manage both. Because when it comes to AI chatbots, context—and how they (and we) understand it—is everything.

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