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Don’t Do Anything at All? Facts Suggest Aphrodisiacs Could Remain Just a Fantasy

By M. Christian
September 30, 2024
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Sexual arousal may simply too complex to effectively replicate

The way many sexual technologies seem to be rapidly progressing, there’s a very good chance we’ll see—and enjoy—everything from autonomous, hyper-realistic artificial companions to fully immersive, completely interactive erotic playgrounds.  

And well and good, but it’s looking like one particular legendary sexual fantasy, a substance that’d instantly arouse anyone who consumes it, may forever remain out of reach—or will it?

Turning on the body

University of Michigan Professor of Psychology and Neuroscience Kent Berridge told Popular Science that a dream-come-true aphrodisiac would have to perform the extremely challenging task of stimulating two completely separate areas of the brain.

The first, known for governing a key pleasure-inducing hormone, was long thought to lie in the mesolimbic pathway.  “We all thought that the dopamine system was pleasure, that turning on dopamine would generate pleasure,” Berridge explained.

This is because dopamine can be triggered by external stimuli, with Berridge postulating it’s more of an instigator of sexual arousal rather than the source of it.

So, in order to make our aphrodisiac recipe complete, it would also have to pick up where dopamine leaves off by making sex feel exceptionally good.  

Researchers have determined our brain’s opioid and endocannabinoid neurotransmitters are the actual source of sexual pleasure.

So a truly reliable aphrodisiac would have to hit both cranial sweet spots at the right time, in the right order, with the right dosages to make our fantasy a reality.

Turning on the mind

Not that in the several thousand years of human history, we’ve ever stopped trying.  But the truth is, even after all that time, we’ve never come close to developing a genuine aphrodisiac.

And even while we’ve occasionally appeared to come close, the results have been problematic, to put it mildly.  

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For instance, yohimbine, supposedly derived from an unusually rare plant, might turn a person on at the cost of heart arrhythmia, sleep disruption, and—just what you want in someone whose mind is sexually overclocked—manic behavior.

On the bright side, when it comes to erection-inducing medications, we’ve reached a, excuse the joke, high point.  Not to pour cold water on our aphrodisiac dreams, but sildenafil might take care of the physical, we’ve yet to crack the emotional side of the equation.

Turning on ourselves

Pattern-seeking creatures that we are, we often tend to seek objective solutions—even if what we’ve attempted to understand or solve is purely subjective.

Sexual desire might involve the production and distribution of dopamine in conjunction with neurochemically activating the opioid and endocannabinoid centers of our brains—and, who knows, we someday may formulate a cocktail capable of hitting each in precisely the right way—but there’s no denying the far greater role emotional attraction plays in getting our libidos hot and bothered.

Besides, as we’ve discussed previously, would we truly want a consent-altering drug, medicine, or food?  

Speaking to Time, University of Texas Health Science Center Psychologist Robert Dain compared the concept of an aphrodisiac to chemical assault, saying, “Did you ever notice that typically it’s the male who wants the aphrodisiac—not for himself but his partner?”

Logic and proportion—and responsibility

Steering well clear of the far-too-common, panic-stricken camp of damning a social or technological development, particularly one that may never be possible, let’s not forget that a great deal of good may come from some sort of all-encompassing, proven-effective aphrodisiac.

This includes its possible usefulness as a therapeutic tool in helping process performance or sex-related emotional concerns.  

In the right hands, it may also do what performance-enhancing drugs can’t, that is linking the consumer’s mind with their body—demonstrating sexual fulfillment isn’t repeatedly inserting tab A into slot B but comes when a person is fully present, aware, and, more than anything else, conscious of their and their partner’s needs and desires.

As Robert Dain mentioned, in itself, our seemingly never-ending pursuit of a magical, sexual desire-indulging potion may do more than actually creating it by making us face—and hopefully move beyond—our dark, disturbing need to sexually manipulate other people. 

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M. Christian

M.Christian (they/them) loves nothing better than exploring the intersections of sex and technology—and speculating on the future of both. A highly regarded erotica writer they have six novels,12 collections, 100+ short stories, and 25 anthologies as an editor to their name. Their non-fiction regularly appears in many sites, but they're most proud of being a regular contributor to Future of Sex.

Of their erotic fiction, Tristan Taormino said that “M.Christian is a literary stylist of the highest caliber: smart, funny, frightening, sexy—there's nothing [they] can't write about… and brilliantly.”

Reflecting their unique ability to sympathetically and convincingly write for a range of genders and sexual orientations, their stories have appeared in multiple editions of Best American Erotica, Best Gay Erotica, Best Lesbian Erotica, The Mammoth Books of Erotica, and others. Their collection of gay erotic fiction, Dirty Words, was a finalist for the Lambda Literary Award.

While a majority of their stories have been collected into books like Dirty Words, their fondness for combining sex and science fiction is clearly evident in collections that include Rude Mechanicals, Technorotica, Better Than The Real Thing, Skin Effect Effect, Bachelor Machine, and Hard Drive: The Best Sci-Fi Erotica of M.Christian.

As a novelist, M.Christian’s versatility is on full display with Running Dry, The Very Bloody Marys, Brushes, Painted Doll; and the somewhat controversial queer BDSM/horror/thrillers Finger's Breadth, and Me2.

M.Christian has worked on the industry’s production side as an Associate Publisher for Renaissance E Books and as a Publisher for Digital Parchment Services. The latter dedicated to celebrating the works of science-fiction legends such as William Rotsler, Jerome Bixby, Jody Scott, Arthur Byron Cover, Ernest Hogan, and James Van Hise.

Covering topics like BDSM safety, sexual education, senior sexuality concerns, queer and gender issues, plus reviewing a variety of sex tech products, M.Christian’s non-fiction has appeared on sites like Kinkly, Tickle.Life, Sexpert, Queer Majority, Sex for Every Body, and—of course—their ongoing work for Future of Sex.

If there’s anything M.Christian enjoys more than writing, it’s teaching. A featured presenter, sometimes with their friend Ralph Greco Jr, at national sex and BDSM events, they have lectured on kink play (with an emphasis on safety), polyamory, boosting sexual creativity, and erotica writing--for beginners or those wanting to go pro.

M.Christian is a cohost on two popular sex-education podcasts: Love’s Outer Limits with Dr. Amy Marsh and Licking Non-Vanilla with Ralph Greco, Jr.
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